Be a Good Listener

People these days tend to forget that we have two ears and one mouth for a reason.

Like seriously,

When a person speaks, he is more likely to be interrupted by others who are trying to outsmart him. Most likely those who are trying to prove their superiority over the person who is speaking. This is the worst thing you can do. 

The tendency of listening to others is decreasing. I dont blame it on generation. Nobody is willing to listen. Everyone wants to teach. Whenever you attend a college lecture students are sleeping, others are busy on whatsapp, daydreaming, playing footsie and whatnot. Only a few sincere students are willing to listen (of course it depends on the teacher's way of teaching). 

Sometimes Women just want someone to whom they can tell everything. Just a person who would listen. Who would listen carefully to their problems, give a shoulder to lean on without any silly solutions. Such person is rare to find. Either people have no time to listen or they are busy talking.

 Listening is the key portion of communication. It tells us more about the person. It makes us humble, kind enough to value others opinion. Yes, there may be conflicts but a gentleman(and a woman) would allow others to put their point forward without interrupting. Only a person with lack of confidence, insecure, afraid to lose his value would not let others speak.

Being a good listener is the quality everyone must possess. It helps us in all walks of life. Teaches us new things. When we are not talking, we also utilize other senses we have, we observe the world more closely with our eyes, see things that would have gone unnoticed. Listen to most peculiar sounds carefully. We also take time to think and analyze the situation.

So what are you willing to be called, a blabbering snob or beautiful person.

Hope you know why we have two ears and one mouth now ;P